Greece Customs And Etiquette

Greek hospitality is legendary. From your first days in the country, you may be invited to drop by a stranger’s home for coffee, share a meal at a local taverna, or attend an engagement party or baptism. The invitations are genuine; it’s impossible to spend any length of time in the country and not have some friendly interaction with locals. Greet new acquaintances with “kalimera” (“good morning”) or “kalispera” (“good evening”). Personal questions are ordinary and expected in Greece; people you’ve just met will ask about family, career, salary, and other information. Returning questions in kind is expected and appreciated, so don’t be embarrassed to be friendly!

Food And Drink

Offering food and drink to guests is how the Greeks say hello. When offered, take it—it’s almost always considered rude to refuse. Hosts usually will offer coffee upon a guest’s arrival. Visiting and gossiping over coffee, either at a cafe or at someone’s home, is how many Greeks spend their nights. Wine drinkers should note that glasses are filled only halfway but are constantly replenished; it’s considered bad manners to empty your glass. When out to eat, the bill usually is paid by the host rather than split among the diners. Even though it’s understood that the host will foot the bill, dramatic (but fruitless) attempts to throw in money are common. Never offer money in return for an invitation to dine at someone’s home. A small gift, such as a toy for the host’s children, is a welcome token of gratitude.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T!

It is customary to show deference to elders, which may mean offering a seat on a bus or helping someone cross the street. Visitors to churches are expected to dress conservatively; both men and women always should cover their shoulders and knees. Take signs forbidding photography seriously. Even if photography isn’t specifically forbidden in a particular church or monastery, it remains extremely rude and offensive. Never photograph anything having to do with the military. Even if you’re hoping that a tiny rock from Delphi will become your own personal oracle if you take it home with you, refrain from pocketing “souvenirs” from ancient sites, as it is considered disrespectful and is possible cause for arrest.